The author Jon Acuff coined the term “Critics Math.” Here’s the equation:
1000 compliments + 1 insult = 1 insult
Seems like a nonsensical equation. However, it makes total sense in leadership. It’s the notion that we can do a thousand things right, get a thousand compliments, or make a thousand good decisions, but then we fixate on the one criticism, the one insult we receive, or the one bad decision.
- When you believe critics math, you make it more powerful. Every time you believe it, it gets easier to give in to it next time.
- You ignore the huge majority of people who are happy with your leadership.
- You focus on trying to make that one person happy when you most likely won’t be able to do that anyway, especially in education, pastoral, or community service work.
- You take your eye off your mission of evangelization and education.
Instead, think about these three things:
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- You will absolutely have critics. You may have a few that criticize absolutely everything you do. Ignore them.
- If you don’t have critics, you’re a bad leader. You’re trying to please everybody and be popular, which eventually means you’re pleasing no one. Wanting to be popular is the best sign of being a lousy leader.
- Critics math is a lie. Period. Reject it and move on!